Author name: Melihbee

Becoming An Island Observer: Two Years In Nanaimo

For two years now, Vancouver Island has been quietly re‑educating me. I arrived with city reflexes still intact — the habit of comparing, of measuring places against more polished versions of themselves. Victoria, with its flowerbeds and façades, its carefully tended charm, is often held up as the Island’s thriving heart. Nanaimo, by contrast, is

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Quietly Thriving: Nanaimo as a Model for Sustainable Living

  When people talk about sustainability, they often picture cutting‑edge cities with futuristic infrastructure, public transit innovations, or sweeping corporate commitments. Nanaimo offers something quieter — a grassroots model of sustainability rooted in community involvement, connection to nature, mindful growth, and everyday choices that ripple outward. In this city on the Salish Sea, balancing environmental

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The Rise of Nanaimo: Spas, Yoga, and Holistic Living

  Nanaimo is quietly redefining what it means to live well. Far from the hustle of larger cities, this mid-sized coastal city is emerging as a hub for wellness, holistic living, and mindful lifestyle choices — and it’s doing so without fanfare. Walking through downtown or along the harbourfront, it’s impossible not to notice the

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Nanaimo Isn’t Trying to Be the Next Vancouver — and That’s Exactly Why It’s Thriving

  Vancouver has spent decades asking how to be more livable. We debate density models, redesign streets, and search for the elusive balance between growth, ambition, and well-being. But just across the water, a different answer has been quietly unfolding — without fanfare, without branding, and without trying to be anything other than itself. Nanaimo

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Nanaimo Is Thriving — Not Because It’s Changing, but Because It Knows What Matters

Nanaimo Is Thriving — Not Because It’s Changing, but Because It Knows What Matters For years, Nanaimo has been described as a city in transition. A ferry town. A former resource hub. A place people pass through on the way to somewhere else. Too often, it’s framed by what it used to be, or what

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We Talk About Mental Health Constantly — But We Still Build Lives That Make It Worse

Mental health awareness has never been higher. We speak openly about anxiety, burnout, and depression. We encourage self-care. We normalise struggle. Campaigns remind us to check in on one another. Celebrities share their stories. Companies roll out meditation apps and mental health days. And yet, the environments we design — socially, economically, geographically — often

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The Wallflower Movement: Quiet Strengths

    In a world that celebrates boldness, visibility, and noise, the quiet ones are often overlooked. The observers, the listeners, the introverts, the women whose power is subtle, unseen, and yet profoundly influential. This is the essence of the Wallflower Movement — an advocacy for women who operate in quiet ways, including those with

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Why Ritual Is Returning — And Why It Has Nothing to Do With Spirituality

  Ritual has a branding problem. For years, the word has been folded into belief systems, spiritual identities, or wellness trends that feel either inaccessible or faintly performative. It conjures images of incense, affirmations, or rigid routines designed to “optimize” a life already stretched thin. As a result, ritual has been quietly dismissed as something

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The Rise of Quiet Travel: Why More of Us Are Choosing to Go Nowhere

  For decades, travel has been measured by distance. The further we went, the more expansive the experience was meant to be. New stamps, new climates, new versions of ourselves. Movement became proof of vitality — of curiosity, ambition, freedom. To travel was not only to leave, but to become. Lately, something has shifted. More

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Up Close with Giants: Whale Watching with My Godson on the Salish Sea

“Are we going to see whales today, Auntie Mel?” my godson asked, bouncing on the balls of his feet as we stepped onto the dock. “I hope so,” I said, smiling at him. “But remember, these are wild animals. They show up when they want to. We have to be patient and respectful.” His mom

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The Quiet Work of Belonging: What a Small Island Taught Me About Community

  I moved to an island expecting solitude. Not the romantic kind sold in travel brochures — but the practical version: fewer people, fewer invitations, fewer places to hide. I had imagined forests, shoreline, silence. What I hadn’t anticipated was how quickly silence becomes a mirror. On Vancouver Island, community isn’t announced. It doesn’t arrive

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Reiki, Stones, and Sacred Symbols: The Quiet Magic That Guides Us

There are places in the world where the unseen feels close. Vancouver Island is one of them — a land where mist moves like breath across the treetops, where moss glows electric-green after rain, and where ancient forests hold stories older than memory. It’s why so many seekers, healers, and intuitive women feel called here.

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The Island Philosophy: How The Little Book of Stoic Wisdom Inspires Slow Living, Kindness, and Eudaimonia on Vancouver Island

On Vancouver Island, the pace of life moves to the rhythm of the tides. There’s a humility to the landscape — an unspoken reminder that we are part of something greater, not separate from it. The sea ebbs and flows, the cedars stand patient through every season, and the mountains remind us that endurance and

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Modern-Day Pioneers: The Spirit of Resilience on Vancouver Island

  When Adam Shoalts closed A History of Canada in Ten Maps with the explorers’ first glimpses of the Pacific, it felt like a revelation — the great western frontier shimmering at the edge of the known world.The journey had been perilous, the outcome uncertain, yet those early explorers were united by a quiet faith

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Mapping the Inner Landscape: Leadership Lessons from A History of Canada in Ten Maps

  When I finished reading Adam Shoalts’ A History of Canada in Ten Maps, I couldn’t stop thinking about how much those early explorers and map-makers had in common with leaders today.They faced uncertainty, discomfort, risk, and sometimes failure — yet they kept moving forward, trusting something larger than themselves. Leadership, I’ve learned, is not

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Mapping a Nation: A Journey Through A History of Canada in Ten Maps

“Every map tells a story. And every map has a purpose—it invites us to go somewhere we’ve never been.” — Adam Shoalts   If you’ve ever stood on a quiet Vancouver Island shore, the wind threading through cedar and salt air, you’ll understand the feeling of discovery that pulses through A History of Canada in

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Stillness in Motion: Reflections from a Morning at Kind Yoga Society – Death & Rebirth

  This morning, I rolled out my mat at Kind Yoga Society, a gentle sanctuary tucked into a quiet corner of Nanaimo. The room was softly lit, infused with the faint scent of sandalwood and stillness. Outside, November leaves tumbled in slow spirals, surrendering to the wind. There was something sacred about the simplicity of

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